I'm probably going to take some flak for this, but you can't really blame AIG right now. Those bonuses are part of a contractual obligation, as I understand. Just because a company does HORRIBLY doesn't mean you can start breaking contracts with employees.
If you want to point fingers, point them at the government for giving them money with NO STRINGS ATTACHED. Obama is just trying to make a statement to the public, to show everyone that hey look, I understand! The government has given AIG close to $200 BILLION already... you think they honestly care about $165 million?