I hear ya, Chuck, and also resemble your story to a large degree.
...finished high school in Lima, Ohio -- Lima Central Catholic...spent the majority of my 'formative years' up a coal mining holler in West Virginia, though, where we raised our own food - both kinds - and went many years without the modern luxuries such as running water and electricity.
I identify most with my hillbilly counterparts, at least in mindset.
My LCC cohorts - it's interesting how progressive our minds *were* at the time. Most of my running mates have followed in the parental footsteps, both in 'spirit' and livelihood.
One of the more defining moments, in my life, was returning to the midwest after my first tour in the Persian Gulf. Without going into great detail, now that the market is open, let me just say that from that moment in time...I never looked at myself (or them) quite the same way.
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My wife has hundreds of Dead shows under her belt & dated one of the guys 'with' the band for a spell, in the 70s--or was that the 80s?
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So, yeah, we don't exactly *think* like the other bears in the ocean
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I'd love to hear more about *your* story -- I'll send you a PM with my info.
Rams